Earlier this week, my "Little Lewie" turned 17! Gulp. I knew time was flying, but honestly, I didn't realize this year would bring such a dramatic shift — not just for him, but for all his friends who turned 17 as well.
For starters, all his friends not only started driving this year, but they also started driving back and forth to school in their own cars. By March, one friend had started working at a specialty grocery store called LaBonne's Market, and before the end of the summer, his other two friends joined him — one also securing a position at LaBonne's and the other working at a grocery store called Big Y.
This past year, we were able to secure two "boys' trips," allowing Lewie to spend valuable time with his friends — one to Salem, MA, and one to Rehoboth Beach, DE. However, after these trips, Lewie's friends' work schedules took over. This meant no more sleepovers, night swimming in the pool, ice-cream stops at the local farm, amusement parks, or even boat tubing! Honestly, it was a real drag (at least, for me). Lewie still went to Lake Compounce with his cousins and got to celebrate his birthday with them, but I was heartbroken to see his friends growing up so fast. I thought we still had a year or two left for sleepovers!
This year, Lewie turned into a young man. Don't get me wrong--he's still super silly (just like his father), but all of a sudden, I noticed him needing me less and less. For starters, I didn't have to intervene with his schoolwork or teachers this year — in fact, he forbade me from contacting any of them. Instead of helping Lewie create flashcards, prep for exams, or contact teachers whose assignments seemed unclear, I sat on the sideline as my son advocated for himself. Initially, it was tough to give up control, but as he started pulling straight As and High Honors (even making the Math National Honor Society in April), I realized it was ridiculous for me to impose on his studies. (In fact, one of the reasons why I decided to go back to school myself is exactly because Lewie didn't need the same help from me anymore.)
He signed up for the ski team and boys' tennis again this year and requested a private tennis tutor to help him improve his game. (We're starting the tutor in two short days.) On September 5, he has a doctor's appointment scheduled to examine his lungs. On some days--not all--his left lung gives him pain or feels "small"--like it's not filling up with enough air. Lewie is typically fine playing matches with his friends, but during one actual game against a rival high school, he began to feel short of breath. Finding a pediatric pulmonologist and scheduling an appointment took months, which is the reason why we had to wait until after the summer to finally have a visit.
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| The boys on the tennis team! |
Two milestones for Lewie this summer included attending his final year at ID Tech Camp and getting his driver's permit. For ID Tech Camp this year, he completed Game Design and Development 101 with Unreal Engine. His transcript says that in completing his last class, he demonstrated proficiency in the following areas:
- Designing a successful game project
- Making gameplay Blueprints
- Creating pickups and collectibles
- Building a room using brushes
- Painting landscapes
- Creating a platformer game
- Designing a custom level
- Creating a health system
- Playtesting a game
- Implementing and providing feedback
- Adding checkpoints and respawns
- Adding materials to a custom model
- 3D modeling a prop from a reference
- Adding a particle system
- Adding a sprinting system
- Adding foliage
- Changing the properties of a light
- Creating 3D models using basic shapes
- Creating a game design document
- Creating player health UI
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| Lewie's Coffee Game |
A: "It's actually a mix of colors. The four I really like are purple, green, blue, and orange. There's something just so appealing to using these four colors. They inspire me." (I should mention here that Lewie loves graphic design. He will be taking this class for his third year in a row. He loves shapes, colors, images, fonts, and more, and he's incredibly talented! In fact, our school superintendent asked Lewie to create a new logo for our school system. He loved it so much that he gave Lewie a $50 gift card as a reward for his hard work.
Q: What is your favorite thing to do at school?
A: "Walk around the halls, sleep in chemistry, and socialize--I really enjoy talking to people." (Yes, Lewie said his chemistry teacher was so dull, he would often fall asleep during his lectures...I certainly didn't condone it, but I know kiddos his age have a hard time staying awake when they have to wake up at the crack of dawn.)
Q: Who is your favorite teacher?
A: "Ms. Jackman." He had Ms. Jackman for history during his first year of high school and wasn't sure about her teaching style. However, by the end of his freshman year, he had grown to love her because she not only had the students listening to the BBC but also answering engaging questions about social issues. This year, he's excited to have her for Sociology.
Q: What is your favorite sport?
A: "I like skiing, but the weather was consistently bad this year." (Yes, he was supposed to have Ski Club on Thursdays, but almost every Thursday, the weather either rained or sleeted with little to no snow.) "I like volleyball, and I would be on a team if we had one. Tennis is my favorite."
Q: What is your favorite food?
A: "French Toast." Lewie was extremely excited this year because his favorite restaurant, Friendly's, started serving breakfast again. (They stopped offering a breakfast menu during COVID and never went back until now.) "I should get their French Toast recipe; I think their secret ingredient is crack cocaine." (Lewie makes this joke because Daddy Lew often makes it....)
Q: What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
A: "Cookie Monster." This is a favorite flavor at a farm near us--Kris Farm. I was surprised by his response because I mostly know him to request chocolate or birthday cake flavors.
Q: What is your favorite video game?
A: "I think this year I had the most fun playing Deltarune."
Q: What is your favorite book?
A: Lewie enjoyed reading Farenheight 451 by Ray Bradbury in his English class this year. He chose We Were Dreamers by Simu Liu for his summer reading. As for his favorite book, he mentioned that he likes House of Leaves by Mark Z. Danielewski. He likes it because of its experimental writing, combining elements of design and word mazes on each page. He admits that he's only read a few pages — instead, he admires it more as a piece of art (since he's into graphic design).
Q: What is your favorite cartoon?
A: "'The Amazing World of Gumball.' Now I understand adult humor and the cultural references behind it."
Q: What is your favorite movie?
A: Lewie couldn't think of a favorite movie, so instead, he provided me with information about his favorite show. "It's Neon Genesis Evangelion. It's action fiction and provides a monumental breakthrough for culture. It combines experimental styles of art and design. It presents characters' past experiences in an interesting way. It's a great mental piece and uses references to religion. The sound design in the show is amazing! I don't really have my thoughts formulated to go deeper."
Q: What is your favorite place or vacation?
A: "The Grand Canyon. Home is a favorite place for me with our pool. We didn't do a whole lot of traveling this year because of my lung."
Q: What do you want to be when you grow up?
A: "Something to do with digital art and computers." He thinks he wants to choose a college that offers majors in Computer Science and Music and Sound Recording.
Q: What is your favorite saying this year?
A: Lewie likes to make a lot of sound effects. If I make a mistake or forget something important, he will wag his finger at me, shake his head, and say 'Tisk, Tisk'; however, it sounds like 'St, St, St, St.' Another way he teases us is by pretending he doesn't know what's going on. Example: Lewie, did you eat the last brownie?" "WHAAT?" "Lewie, did you leave your dishes in the sink?" "WHAAT?" Daddy Lew says Lewie often calls him "Bro" as in "Bro, you need to listen to this!" Finally, Lewie often uses the word "Maybe" as a substitute for "No." If I ask him if he wants to take a walk with me and he responds, "Maybe," he really means "Nope."
Q: What was your favorite moment as a sixteen-year-old?
A: "Just that I'm alive. After my lung collapse, I've gotten so much motivation. It's got me into caring about things more, such as practicing every day with music production, writing, arranging, and composing."
Lewie has definitely become more social this year; he's also become a deep thinker--asking me questions about politics, sociology, psychology, philosophy, and religion. We've had more than one discussion about the benefits and challenges of social media, AI, cryptocurrency, etc. I'm excited for him because he's starting to show the type of curiosity that extends beyond high school learning and even college — he's setting himself up to be a lifelong learner!
Lewie is also an old soul — kind, hardworking, loyal, patient, and empathetic. He's grateful for the things he has, doesn't complain when we ask him to help us, and is super loving. When he leaves the room after any conversation, he's quick to say, "Love you." He's the peacemaker in our house and among his friends with absolutely no drama. Can you tell I love this kid?
I'm excited for Lewie's junior year. This year, he'll be exploring colleges, practicing driving, taking tennis lessons, and working hard on his studies (with three AP classes)! At the same time, I hope we can schedule in some fun — maybe another boys' trip? Whatever we do, I hope to savor the moment because his high school years are going by way too fast!
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