Beach Trip 2018

8.27.2018

In early 2018, I daydreamed about taking two summer vacations, but I didn't know if we would 1) have the finances or 2) have the time.  Going to Yosemite was a definite, but as I much as I yearned for another national park vacation, I also yearned for the beach--Rehoboth Beach, DE--a trip we've made twice before.

During the first week of August, I got my wish, and even more, I was able to combine our quick three day jaunt with a visit to see my bestie from college, Mary Ann!  On early Sunday morning, we left at 6 a.m. to head straight for New Jersey.  Thankfully, we dodged any major traffic and arrived 3.8 hours later to their "new" home in Marlton, NJ.  (I haven't visited my best friend in NJ for years, so their "new" home is actually one that they've lived in for several years now.)


A little music time...
After a morning visit, we headed to their local pool club to cool off.  The pool club had three different pools, a splash pad, food, and a DJ.  It was crowded, but we found our own picnic table and had a chance to enjoy each other's company as if we were the only ones there.

Friends for 25 years!

Lewie w/ good friend, Nimai.

The two hubbies

Maya and Lalita, Mary Ann's two daughters, both in cheerleading
After a full but short visit, we headed for another hour to the Cape May Ferry.  There, we would board our car and travel for another hour and a half by sea to Lewes, DE.   To my surprise, Lewie LOVED the ferry; I didn't even know he liked boats!




On the ferry, we saw the most beautiful sunset!
The next few days, we set out to enjoy Rehoboth.  We went to Jungle Jim's (a water park that we LOVE); ate yummy boardwalk food, like ice cream and crepes; did a little boardwalk shopping--enough to buy my husband a new kite; and went parasailing in the bay.  I had hoped we would have a chance to rent bicycles, but the heat was too much for my boys.  Instead, I took early morning walks by myself on the beach and side streets, daydreaming about what it might be like to own a beach house there one day.  The walks were quiet and meditative--truly medicine for my soul.









A chocolate Nutella crepe. 


Viewing turtles down below...



Over 100 ice cream flavors--Lewie tried cake batter and birthday cake;
I tried double fudge brownie and Key Lime Pie.  Yes, we ate there TWICE.
Little Lewie's favorite part of the trip was parasailing.  I knew we had to go when I found out they had a three-person harness.  I love flying in the air, and in fact, I had Lewie go up with me many, many years ago when he was just five!  Of course, he doesn't have any recollection of his first parasailing trip, but he will remember this one!







Our trip ended late Tuesday night, around 6 p.m. to be exact.  We had tickets to board the ferry once again--this time from Lewes, DE to Cape May, NJ.   It was such a peaceful ride with very few passengers.  I lamented the end of our short trip; however, Rehoboth will always feel like a second home to us.  This was our third visit and certainly not the last.





Two Very Different Summer Camps

8.19.2018

Summer 2018 was a year of transition for all of us.  As I mentioned in previous posts, Lewie's beloved Camp 565 was terminated, and we were left scrambling to fill the void.  Lewie's old camp director, Carrie, suggested a more outdoorsy camp called Eagle Rock Day Camp.  She told me the director and the counselors were wonderful, and the activities (archery, ropes courses, zip lines, swimming, hiking, theater, science, music, and art) would provide Lewie with a plethora of different offerings to choose from.  There were only two "minor" concerns: 1) He'd be in the woods all day.  (Could he handle it as this boy is still squeamish about bugs?) and 2) He'd have to travel an hour back and forth each day on a school bus as the camp isn't that close to us.

At the same time we started considering Eagle Rock, Lewie also begged to go to a computer camp.  The camp, ID Tech Camp, was held at a university only a few miles from my place of work.  (In fact, it was held at the same university where I received my master's degree!)  The disadvantage, however, was that 1) computer camp is almost twice as expensive as regular day camp, and 2) computer camp, for the most part, is indoors in front of a computer.

The transition to these two new camps was not perfect, as we still miss Camp 565, but we did decide the two of them were a perfect complement to each other.  Whereas one camp was all about continuous activity and the Great Outdoors, the other was about his favorite activity in the world: computers!  Here is just a snapshot of Lewie's Eagle Rock experience and then his ID Tech experience:

Little Lewie waiting for me on his third day of Eagle Rock Day Camp.
Eagle Rock provided Lewie with a shirt, a backpack, and a water bottle on his first day.  His backpack was blue, which corresponded to the "color" of his bus stop.  (Anyone getting picked up and dropped off at Middlebury Elementary School would be wearing blue.)  His bus trip was long without air-conditioning, so he needed a water bottle at all times.  (In fact, there would be no air-conditioning inside any of the little buildings at camp!)  Lunch was provided (like mac & cheese, peanut butter & jelly, hot dogs, pizza, etc.), but he was required to bring a swimsuit, towel, sunscreen, and bug spray each day.  The poor boy was hosed down with sunscreen and bug spray each morning, which almost cancelled out his getting washed up.  I was particularly concerned about him getting bit by a deer tick, as Lyme disease is prevalent in our part of the country.

On the last Wednesday of his camp, all parents/family members were invited for a two-hour Open House.  Lew and I both left work early, so we could spend some time with Lewie at camp.  He showed us around, and, of course, we were able to partake in many of the same activities that he did each day.  I was shocked by the number of counselors.  I had no idea this camp had 300+ kids!



Getting read to zip line!

I joined the fun too!

The zip line.  (It goes right over the lake.)

We tried the rowboats, too.



Do you see the fun trampoline they have on the water?



Their logo or mascot--Eagle Rock
Big Lew and I had fun visiting Lewie at camp.  We went out on a row boat, zip-lined, did archery, had s'mores, and let Lewie give us the tour of his summer "home."  It was a fun day and glimpse into Little Lewie's daily camp experience.  His favorite part of this camp was the food, the zip line, the hiking, and the little theater skit they worked on for two weeks.  (My boy likes acting!)

The ID Tech Camp, unsurprisingly, was way different from Eagle Rock. On his first day, I drove him to one of the university residence halls, where he was whisked away to do some outside icebreakers with his new camp counselors.  The camp counselors had nicknames like Taco, Shoe, and Papyrus, and they were definitely clowns.  If anything, they showed Lewie that being a "computer geek" is cool, trendy, fun, and silly.

Lewie standing outside at his computer camp.
Lewie's computer camp only lasted a week, but he insisted he learned a lot.  Most of his time each day was spent on the computer going over lessons, but they did have some breaks outside.  For lunch, they crossed the street and ate at the same college cafeteria where I ate at more than a decade ago!

On Friday, parents were invited to come early to see what their children learned.  It was easy for me to drive there from work, so I went to see the "graduation ceremony," complete with a diploma and free tchotchkes.  After the ceremony, Lewie brought me back to his computer station where he created a PowerPoint to show me what he learned.  He took the "Roblox Entrepreneur" course, so he showed me all the backside coding and scripting he did to create the background and the action inside his game.  It was impressive, but I still wondered if the cost could have been less.





Lewie and his camp counselor, "Taco"



One proud kid.
Lewie insists that he enjoyed both camps; although, he admits to liking the computer camp the best.  I'm pretty sure we'll try to duplicate this experience for him next year, but I'm not certain.  For Eagle Rock, the long bus trip will continue to be a consideration while at ID Tech Camp, the cost will be.  Until then, I'll be looking to see if there is anything new to try next year...    For now, he received two very different experiences, and I know he's grown from both.

Happy Birthday to My Ten Year-Old - An Interview

8.11.2018

It's hard for me to believe that Lewie is ten years-old today.  He's been here for an entire decade!  I've been a mom for a whole decade!  I wish I could say unequivocally that I've been with him for every single milestone, but I know that's impossible.  Instead, I'd like to think I've written about them (or most of them) in this blog.


Silly Lewie
Sweet Lewie (We took a picture of him with a pineapple as the term "pineapple pen" has become his favorite meme.)

This year, my ten year-old will be going into forth grade.  He just squeaks into a size 6 shoe, and he wears a 14-16 for pants and shirts.  (Next year, he will most likely fit into men's shoes and clothing--Yikes!)

It's been a year of transition and new milestones.  For one, in May, he had his very first sleepover at his best friend's house.  Now since that faithful day, Lewie and Ryan have spent several days this summer sleeping over each other's houses; in fact, Ryan is sleeping over tonight to be here for his birthday.  The two of them have become best buds, and it warms my heart to think that they've had play dates since they were one years-old!

Another milestone is that Lewie tried new camps this year.  His beloved Camp 565 was cancelled back in March, and suddenly we were left scrambling to find something to take its place.  One new camp that he attended for several weeks, Eagle Rock Day Camp, offered archery, zip lines, hiking, swimming, and all things nature.  It was a first for him to be at such a camp, and the archery and the zip line were both new experiences.  Another camp he attended, ID Tech Camp, was a week of learning coding and scripting on the computer.  He begged me to attend this camp, and while it's difficult for me to comprehend exactly what he learned, it did confirm his love of computers.  He told me on the forth day, "Mommy, I even spent my free time going through the lessons because I really want to learn."

Little Lewie, of course, is still my sweet angel.  He's an easy kid with a heart of gold.  He does everything he can to make people happy and stay away from drama.  He's kind to his teachers, his classmates, and his friends, and he LOVES life.  All of his interests have turned to the computer, but we still play board games, hike, swim, and bike.  While he loves to play games on the Xbox and watch YouTube videos, he's lately developed an interest for making songs using Music Maker Jam.  Music is turning to a new love, and he can often be seen wearing headphones when he doesn't want to disturb us (like at 5 in the morning).

Last year, I asked him the following 14 questions.  I also added two more to the mix.  Some of his answers are the same, but many are different.  My little boy is definitely growing up!

Q:  What is your favorite color?
A:  Orange (Same as last year.)

Q:  What is your favorite book?
A:   Wonder.  Although, he still enjoys The Magic Tree House books, too. 

Q:  What is your favorite cartoon?
A:  "The Amazing World of Gumball" and "Teen Titans Go! To the Movies"

Q:  What is your favorite movie?
A:  "Avenger's Infinity War," says Lewie.  "Although, my favorite movie of all time is still 'The Polar Express.' I need to see it more."

Q:  What is your favorite song?
A:  "Megalovania" by Toby Fox from the UNDERTALE Soundtrack."  (Lewie says this very matter-of-factly.)

Q:  What is your favorite board game?
A:  Clue. (Although, we also like Sorry, Slapsies, and sometimes Chutes and Ladders.  He played Monopoly and Scrabble for his first time this year, too.)

Q:  What is your favorite computer game?
A:  "Undertale," he answers.  Although, he likes playing Fortnite, Roblox, and Minecraft, too.  He also still likes playing Mario games on the Wii U.

Q:  What is your favorite place?
A:  "Billy's Ice Cream because it's simple and yummy."  (It also has a Lionel train that rides around the ice cream parlor on a track.)  When Lewie mentioned this was his favorite place, we decided to take him there today, and then we discovered it went out of business.  We're so sad! 

Q:  What is your favorite thing to do at school?
A:  P.E.  (Gym) (Same as last year)

Q:  Who is your favorite teacher?
A:  "Probably Mr. Youngs (Lewie's music teacher), but Mrs. Nardelli is nice, too (Lewie's third grade teacher)."

Q:  What is your favorite sport?
A:  Basketball

Q:  What is your favorite food?
A:  French Toast (Same as last year)

Q:  What is your favorite thing to do with Mommy?
A:  Taking walks (Same as last year, but he didn't mention the trampoline)

Q:  What do you want to be when you grow up?
A:  "A Game Designer!"

Q:  What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy?
A:  "Watch Avenger movies with him!"

Q:  What is your favorite moment as a nine year-old?
A: "Going parasailing."  (We just recently did this during our brief trip to Delaware.  There will be more about this later...)

Sayings
This year Lewie has picked up on memes from YouTube.  He likes to say the same things over and over again like, "Hi! Welcome to Chili's," "I want a hot dog," or "Pineapple Pen."  We laugh because he says them at the most ridiculous times, and we've even joined in the fun by actually buying him a pineapple pen, a pineapple shirt, a pineapple towel, and even a pineapple night light.  This boy has become the pineapple kid even though he actually doesn't eat pineapples!

(One quick story: When we stayed at the Evergreen Lodge near Yosemite National Park, we quickly learned that our room had an Alexa Amazon device.  The boys--a.k.a. my husband and Little Lewie--went back and forth asking Alexa to play music, tell jokes, etc.  Then, out of the blue, Lewie says, "Alexa, play Pineapple Pen."  We laughed from the absurdity of it all...UNTIL...Alexa starts playing "Pen Pineapple Apple Pen."  What?  There's actually a song with this title?  We laughed until we almost peed our pants, and the song made us laugh even more.  (It's worth checking out the video for a further chuckle.)

Other sayings by Lewie include, "I'm proud of my mom because she's a dean," "I'm going to college where my mom works," and "I'm going to create [fill in the blank]."  This boy is constantly coming up with new game, software, console, and computer ideas either to improve existing programs or to come up with brand new ones.

My Little Lewie is definitely growing up, but there are still times when he reminds me of being a little kid.  He still sleeps with his beloved "Tigey" (stuffed animal tiger); he loves Star Wars and the Avengers; he loves playing computer games to be silly and not competitive; and he loves making people laugh.  At times, he mispronounces a big word or I have to teach him what a word means.  He also needs to be bribed to take a shower or a bath, as he shows no interest in dressing up for girls just yet (thank goodness)!

Yes, I'll take ten.   I'm sad that a full decade has gone by.  (I wept as I looked through ten years worth of pictures.)  Still, he's young, and he isn't done needing us yet!  If anything, I'm using this birthday to remind me that my quality time with little guy is limited, and so I need to dedicate the next ten years to him just as much as I did the first ten years.  I'm going to continue being an active mom in his life--even if it means taking on less commitments at work or in my town.  These years are precious, and so Lewie--YOU COME FIRST!  Here's to the next decade; it WILL be awesome!

Lake Tahoe - You Have My Heart

8.03.2018

When I knew we were taking a trip to Yosemite, the first thing I did was map out a trip to Lake Tahoe.  I soon learned that Lake Tahoe was about three hours away from Mammoth Lakes, so I made sure we spent a day there before going home.

You see, Lake Tahoe has a special place in our heart.  In 2005, Lew and I scheduled a trip there without knowing much about the place.  It cost us $500 for both of us round trip--this included plane tickets and lodging.  (I laugh about how much cheaper it was to travel back then.)  We were engaged to be married and thought this would be a fun, last-minute, August vacation before the summer ended.

Little did we know that we would soon fall in love with the place.  We kayaked, hiked, rented a jet ski, and even rented a Harley.  (It takes two full hours to travel around the entire lake.)  The water was so clear, we could see to the bottom of our toes, and the night sky was so dark and crisp that we could see so many stars--even shooting stars.  It's honestly one of those trips that I find myself reminiscing about the most.





While we hiked, we soon saw that Lake Tahoe was a family destination.  There were plenty of campgrounds with children and their parents.  Knowing Lew and I were soon to be married in 2006, I daydreamed about coming back when we had a family.  How cool would it be for our own children to experience this place!

Now, fast-forward thirteen years later, and we came back!  Granted, we didn't stay overnight, which is something I would like to do, but we did get to rent bicycles and ride to the historic Camp Richardson.  We put our feet in the water (the water is still cold there in June) and stopped for some ice cream before traveling back.  The beaches and the water were just as beautiful as I remembered, and I honestly cried when we left.  Maybe it was the memories of being a couple, maybe it was the joy of now being a family and bringing Lewie here, or maybe it was the spiritual connection I feel to this place.  I was sad to leave, but it was definitely an amazing way to end our trip.  I promised myself we will be back again.  Although, I am not going to wait another 13 years to do it!













Maybe I can make Lake Tahoe part of my five-year plan?  I'm not ready to say goodbye.